October 21 2014
I asked my ex, now good friend, if she would ever have an open relationship and she said, “No, I don’t think I could do that” then after a pause and a smile, “but what about love affair friendships?” She went on to describe an impenetrable fortress of female friendship, her own group of best mates who’d known each other since school and had supported and loved each other through almost all of their lifetimes. They sounded far more bonded to, and in love with one another, than their respective husbands. It struck me that we don’t have the language to reflect the diversity and breadth of connections we experience. Why is sex the thing we tend to define a relationship by, when in fact it can be simple casual fun without a deep emotional transaction? Why do we say “just friends” when, for some of us, a friendship goes deeper? Can we define a new currency of commitment that celebrates and values this? Instead of having multiple confusing interpretations of the same word, could we have different words? What if we viewed our relationships as a pyramid structure with our primary partner at the top and a host of lovers, friends, spiritual soul mates, colleagues, and acquaintances beneath that?
— Rosie Wilby, “You’re More Polyamorous Than You Think” (via foutue)

Oh my god, this totally had me until “pyramid structure.” I was like yes! yes! yes! ye- wait, what the hell, pyramid structure?

(via call-with-current-continuation)

(Source: sodisarmingdarling)

October 21 2014
Meat practice and froyo date!

Meat practice and froyo date!

October 21 2014

r-t-v:

Cuddle weather? Fuck that. It’s hickey season. You can hide anything behind a large scarf.

October 21 2014
saregod:

gonna go skate with two of my favorite derby babes 
B) 
i have a baseball sized bruise developing on my left thigh. 

saregod:

gonna go skate with two of my favorite derby babes 

B) 

i have a baseball sized bruise developing on my left thigh. 

October 21 2014
obscuruslupa:

The actual, legit Blu-Ray release cover for The Room.
I am as baffled as I am intrigued by the choice to Photoshop the eyes.

obscuruslupa:

The actual, legit Blu-Ray release cover for The Room.

I am as baffled as I am intrigued by the choice to Photoshop the eyes.

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